We're committed to creating a safe environment for everyone. Read our guidelines, know your rights, and stay protected.
Call emergency services immediately
Essential tips to keep yourself safe whether you're a client or a provider.
Always look for verified profiles. Check reviews from other clients and ensure the provider has been ID verified by our team.
For first meetings, choose public places or verified incall locations. Avoid isolated areas and always let someone know where you're going.
Discuss services, rates, and boundaries before meeting. Clear communication prevents misunderstandings and ensures mutual respect.
If something feels wrong, leave immediately. Your safety is more important than any appointment. Never feel pressured.
Confirm rates and payment methods beforehand. Avoid carrying large amounts of cash. Never transfer money before meeting.
Use a separate phone number or messaging app. Don't share personal details like your home address or workplace.
We verify all providers to ensure a safer experience for everyone. Look for the blue verified badge when browsing profiles.
All featured profiles are verified
Save these numbers. Help is always available when you need it.
Police, Fire, Ambulance
Report non-urgent crimes
NZ Prostitutes' Collective support
24/7 support for victims
Safe to Talk - 24/7
Free call or text anytime
Experienced something concerning? We take all reports seriously and investigate promptly. Your report can be anonymous.
Use the report button on any profile
Response within 24 hours
Common questions about safety and legal matters.
Yes, sex work was decriminalised in New Zealand in 2003 under the Prostitution Reform Act. This means it's legal for adults (18+) who are NZ citizens or residents to work as sex workers, and for clients to purchase their services. However, there are still regulations around operating brothels, health and safety standards, and advertising.
Our verification process includes ID verification to confirm the provider is 18+ and legally allowed to work in NZ. We also verify photos to ensure they match the person. Verified profiles display a blue verification badge. We never store ID documents - we only confirm the verification status.
Leave immediately if you feel unsafe. Trust your instincts. You can call 111 for emergencies or 105 for non-urgent police matters. Document what happened and report it to us through our reporting system. Your safety is always the priority.
Use the "Report" button on any profile or message thread. You can also contact us directly through the contact page or email safety@touchme.co.nz. All reports are treated confidentially and investigated promptly.
Yes, we take privacy very seriously. Your personal information is encrypted and never shared with third parties. Providers only see the information you choose to share. We comply with NZ Privacy Act requirements and never sell user data.
We recommend regular STI testing through your GP or sexual health clinic. Free testing is available at Family Planning clinics and sexual health services. We also recommend the NZPC (NZ Prostitutes' Collective) as a resource for health and safety information.
Sex work in New Zealand is governed by the Prostitution Reform Act 2003. This legislation decriminalised sex work and provided a framework for the health, safety, and rights of sex workers. Key points: